Wednesday, March 6, 2013

March 5th from Mama . . .

Get Well Wishes to Dada Amanda from Watoto

First off, my heartfelt thanks to so very many of you for embracing my daughter Amanda’s medical emergency in the U.S.  For so many prayers and well wishes sent to her, thank you.  I am so very grateful to report that they have discovered her medical problems isolated and treated the infection in her lungs and her father will take her home to Canada this evening (East Africa time).   It is a horribly frightening experience to go through with one’s child and Amanda’s father and mother (and Amanda also) were bolstered with your well wishes, as was I.  Thank you, thank you, thank you.

 
Said
We have not been without our own crises here at Tumaini but for that too I am happy to share we’ve had no new cases of mumps, no more malaria and only Said and Kelvin are sick with the flu at this moment . . . but, as is the case with such a large family, this will change quickly.  (As a matter of fact it just has . . . Wema Chikira, one of the children we outreach to and Karoli’s sister just showed up and rests in my bed with either mafua (the flu) or malaria).


Wema Chikira is here with me ill.
 
Nelson came home with typhoid and returned to school only to catch malaria.  He has recovered.  Latifa and Esther have been resized for their leg braces (Latifa for a club foot and Esther for support for a drop foot).  Did you know that a person with malaria usually responds within hours of receiving medication?

 

 
 
 
 
The temperatures are unusually high for this part of Tanzania, more in line with Dar Es Salaam which is nine hours south of here by car.  It is sticky and humid and we’ve not had nearly enough rain.  The boys worked together yesterday (and will complete tomorrow) the Chikira (the family of children Jackson, Glory, Ayubu, Wema and Karol we outreach to) maize harvest and to describe it as a “modest” yield is an understatement.  Baba Raymond (Raymond’s father) also had a crop failure with his maize and I fear for future prices as maize is a staple food in this country (ugali, makande) and prices have skyrocketed since I began this work in 2009.  Then I was able to purchase a bag of maize for as little as 23,000 SH. Today we pay 90,000 SH.  I worry.

Happy 5th Birthday to Liadi!!

                                                                                                                    

Liadi enjoyed his fifth birthday and for those of you who know this little man, he is so very much NO LONGER a BABY . . . his younger sister Nazema is now with us at Tumaini and although she may pass him soon in physical growth, he tries very hard to be the big brother.  Liadi came to us as a baby of just two years and had quite a “tabia” or attitude of crying or pouting whenever he didn’t get his way.  He is
working hard, as are some of our other children to improve their attitudes and “make better choices”.

Raymond and Mama . . .

 And, did you know that Raymond (home for a two week visit from his first year of studies in Public Administration at the University of Dodoma) went yesterday to visit his family (his father continues to struggle with throat cancer) and is one of only two people in his entire village attending university?  No one else received either the grades or found the financial opportunity to go . . .

Joseph, Abdi and Izzy preparing for their new schools!!!

 To Tine and Kate and Izzy who worked so hard to help the boys (and Anna) prepare for entrance exams to their respective schools, Bruno comes home weekends and is quite happy at Edmund Rice Secondary School.  Joseph and Abdi just came home with marks on their first month exams averaging 92% and 96% respectively.  We are ecstatic!  Ayubu is living here with us while he studies and we wait to hear about Anna but expect that she is doing well.

Marko has dropped out of school . . . one of Oddo’s longest supported students, and one of the first “24” of Tumaini’s children when we began, has decided that secondary school is not for him and we are devastated.  Marko comes from a desperately poor family up Mount Meru and Oddo found him on the street and has worked for years to find support for his education.  Ranger Safaris has generously paid his school fees for many years and we began supplementing his support here in order to give him what he needs to study.  He entered Form I, first level of secondary school and ran away in less than two weeks.  He came to us here (Oddo and I) for guidance and we persuaded him (we thought) to return for the balance of this year and if unhappy still, we would find another school for him as long as he performed and provided us with a strong report card.  It is especially sad because he was accepted in Moshi Technical School which is very well respected.  We cannot imagine what he will do with his life now for “home” is not a long term option for him.

 
With February exams coming in I’d like to share that our Amani students (5 of whom skipped Class II and went directly to Class III) are performing outstandingly.  Harriri will be #1 this month but all of our children are in the 80’s and 90’s for most classes with only a few high sixties and seventies.  Kelvin is coming along and catching up on his Kiswahili, Civics, African History and gaining confidence in his English and Math and Francis shines academically as always.  We will visit the Haradali children tonight (Ema, Lazaro, Eva, Angela, Margaret, Mwanhamisi but expect to find outstanding performance from most of them also.  Ema, Lazaro, Angela and Margaret are especially serious about their studies.

Margaret, Eva, Ema and Lazaro

 Our Tumaini students in Class II shine with A’s and B’s and only Athuman struggles to catch up, which he will now that he is returned to English school.  He has readjusted very comfortably and I don’t see his anger surfacing as frequently and he truly tries to be a big brother to not only his own siblings (Harriri, Liadi and Nazema) but to all the younger children.  He appears happy for the most part and we have no more bedwetting issues.
 

 Class I consists of a number of new students (Zaibu, Neema, Noella, Rebecca, Francis, Nazema, Lucia and Baraka) as well as Liadi and Tony and I’d like to thank Kathy Hoey again who volunteered here with us, teaching our first graders for January and February.  She has left us to go on safari and we wish her safari njema.





First there was a church burnt and then most recently a priest murdered in Zanzibar . . . the country shudders at the thought of escalated tensions but the writing appears to be on the wall . . .



 (Stephano just dropped in for a hug and a cuddle . . . he makes my day). 

 
 
Unfortunately Reward is experiencing difficulty again with his kitwa (head). He was diagnosed just over a year ago with a parasite in his brain caused by eating tainted pork. We had two CT scans completed and was treated with three courses of very strong medication and his symptoms (dizziness and severe headaches) subsided, but recently the pain has returned, almost daily. He explains that for some days (when he is not studying but relaxing) there is little or no pain at all (he came home for two weeks and only had pain one day when he was under stress). When he studies though, he believes he triggers something in the part of the brain where the parasite is located, the trigger irritates the parasite and he suffers.

And I would be remiss if I didn’t share (without using names) how a certain older child taught a certain younger child how to fufu (I’ll leave it to you to figure that out).  Well.  I have one child here who fancies himself to be my body guard . . . and he takes his job VERY seriously . . . the other day, the fufu teacher was in my room (Jake it’s the BIG fufer and not the little one you’re thinking of), and my body guard came in and said, “hey - - - - I have a zawadi (gift) for you!”  He ran forward, leapt into the air and with a twist of his posterior delivered said “zawadi” to its recipient who gawked in absolute shock, as my body guard responded, “you fufu to mama and now I fufu to you”.  Boys . . . 

It is our hope and prayer that each of you knows how very grateful we are for your continued love and support and that as you prepare for Easter you will remember we pray for you.  Thank you again for your prayers for my daughter Amanda . . . be well!!

Asante for Swimming Party!!!

 
Enormous thanks to Mama Lotte (Esther's sponsor) and family and to Ella and Maya (and Mama and Baba) (Martha and Anna's co-sponsors) for hosting our family swim day and picnic.  We had a wonderful, if not chilly time of it and I think the photos speak for themselves!! 
 
 
 
 
 













 
 
















Thursday, February 7, 2013

Jan 22nd – Feb 5th (Happy Birthday Dad) from Mama under the Net . . .

Mike Morley, Dave Egles and Dave Spittlehouse summit Mount Kilimanjaro!
We are well for the most part . . . it is HOT!  And no rain . . . the children are WONDERFUL and so big and doing incredibly well!!  Our climbers summited successfully, all but one who was brought down with pulmonary edema.  The other three stood on the top of Africa . . . thank you to all the supporters who have helped them reach some enormous goals . . . physically and (for us at Tumaini) financially.  Your kindness and generosity are so very much appreciated. 


Opening Gifts from GNS

Part of the GNS TEAM!!


Thank you 6th Grade GNS Students for our zawadis (Gifts)!


A special Mr. Burnett Greeting!
Mr. Jake Burnett, Headmaster at Glenlyon Norfolk School  (GNS) in Victoria, BC Canada, has returned to Canada after two weeks and we hope to build an ongoing relationship with GNS in the future.  Thank you to staff and students who gifted our children with “zawadis” “gifts” for each Tumaini child and let us look to Skype together again soon. 





Rashid came to us just one year ago, fighting AIDS (CD4 186) and speaking no English.  He is a walking, talking English dictionary now and after our visit to his AIDS clinic we discovered that his CD4 has skyrocketed to 905.  You or I, without HIV might have that CD4 count.  Every child has grown since my departure in May but Rashid and Neema present the most dramatic changes.  Little Neema is well and still does not require ARV’s and Glory is stable, if not better, although she requires a ton of medication and struggles with rashes virtually all the time.  Mary will attend her clinic on February 15 and we’ll update you then.


Rashid Clinic Card
 
Glory Clinic Card

 



 
We have worked for a year to reunite this family . . .
 

We’ve grown by two more children (Karoli and Nazema) but before that . . . ATHUMAN is home!  After a year of struggling, threatening and negotiating, we finally have our boy back and he sits upstairs at his Class II desk, getting reacquainted with his brothers and sisters . . . oh, and he brought us Nazema, the youngest in the family and so the entire family (except for an adult brother who lives in Dar) is with us here at Tumaini.  Deo, Anna, Gaspar, Athuman, Harriri, Liadi and now Nazema who was immediately sponsored by our own Mama Korosho and we are so very grateful for that!  Asante!!
Mama Korosho and our newest and youngest . . . Nazema!

Karoli Chikira has come to us and looks for a sponsor.
 
Sorting and packing for school . . .
 
 
Third, fourth and sixth class Amani Students

Haradali School returning students l/r Eva, Margaret, Angela, Mwanhamisi,
Lazaro and Emmanuel

Tumaini Class II

 



Neema and our crazy Antony off to Kilimani

 



 
Speaking of Harriri (and Daniel, Martha, Eliza and Christina) who performed so well on their end of year first grade exams that we challenged the second year ending exam for Amani Primary, the sixth best primary school in Tanzania and they passed!  They are now seated in Class III at Amani with Gerehad, Jenny and Esther.  Kudos goes out to Teacher Winner & our students for their hard work!


 
And further thanks to Dave Egles and friends and HES Solar for allowing us to be the ONLY house in the neighbourhood with lights after a cut out of power . . . how lucky are we??  It is not too difficult to see who has the only solar power installation in the neighbourhood . . .
 

Lohai helping Dave install the panels at Tumaini
 
 Nelson was home for a visit, unfortunately with typhoid from bad water at his school and headed back last week to contract malaria AND the flu which most of us here are suffering with.  He is lying low but had begun to rally after he got dawa (medicine) to kill the parasite, and by the by, he is fifth in his class at Minaki Secondary School near Dar Es Salaam, a school very respected for their strength in maths and sciences.  My friend Mama Mchome, who is the District Education Officer here exclaimed when I told her Nelson’s position, that a student that strong at Minaki school is most likely one of the strongest math/science students in the country . . . 

And speaking of illness, we’ve got ourselves the MUMPS!  Priska blew up like a balloon and we’re watching Liadi and Christina and most of us are fighting a terrible sore throat (I am hoping it is not strep).  There are about six or seven of us with it now.  And Liadi just lost his first tooth!  He is a bit of a scaredy cat with most things and that included pulling a tooth.  The two bottom adult teeth are through the skin already and so he has six teeth (4 baby and two adult) where he should have just two.  He was eating a mango and came running into my office to tell me it was loose and I sat him down and did my dental floss thing with him, explaining that, if it hurt we would stop and try again another time.  He gave me the green light and I got the floss around the tooth and he grimaced and POP it was out!  I held the string up in front of him and as he realized he was looking at his tooth, began to jump up down shouting, “I didn’t cry!  I didn’t cry!"
Enormous thanks to Maya and Ella (and Mom and Dad), co-sponsors for Anna and Martha and to Mama Lotte and Dada Christina, sponsors for Esther for allowing us a wonderful pool party!  Much fun was had by all and I’ll include photos in my next blog, but please know how grateful we are!!!
Teacher Richard Mrema, Anna and Mary.
An ongoing concern of mine has been about how most of our older children struggle academically because of their English, or lack thereof . . . unfortunately, after a certain age, it becomes increasingly difficult to transition from Kiswahili to English, even though secondary school is taught here in English.  Students with weak foundations in academics who find themselves thrust into an English environment struggle and often fail to “catch on” to the language, falling even farther behind in their studies.  We’ve witnessed this in many of the children we provide outreach assistance to, who come from terrible schools and as well as some of our own Tumani Children:  Mary, Anna, particularly Gaspar, Nelson and most recently with Kelvin all who came to us with virtually no English foundation whatsoever.  We’ve tried various programs in the past – extra study, trade schools, repetition of school grades and putting children back a class or even two and have had limited success. 
Tumaini Class I with Teacher Hoey, Baraka, Francis, Zaibu, Rebecca, Liadi, Tony and Karoli
With generous funding from the Grand Erie District Retired Teacher’s Organization in Canada, sponsor support, and the hard work of our volunteers, we’ve outfitted not only a second but a THIRD classroom, acquired two computers, and have hired the second of three teachers which will allow us not only our graduated Class II with Teacher Winner, but a new Class I (which is currently being TAUGHT by Grand Erie retired teacher Kathy Hoey, through the end of February), AND our own “catch up” class for those older children struggling in English which then impedes their secondary school studies.  We are ecstatic!  Often these children stall at the senior primary/early secondary school levels because of language issues and with the support of the RTO of Grand Erie District university graduated (a rarity in education here still) teacher, Mr. Richard Mrema is hard at work with our teen children, new texts and computer assistance, improving English which in turn dramatically affects their learning potential.  Thank you Grand Erie RTO, thank you new sponsors Tine and Emily and Isabelle and thank you volunteers Jenny, Leneke and Valentine for building and beautifying our classrooms!

It has taken me two weeks to get this to you and for that I am sorry, but these have been busy weeks:  two emergency trips to town for textbooks and a replacement school sweater without which our children will be (physically) punished; two nights down and out with a nasty flu, three evenings ago, a lonnggg talk with of one our children who chose to “lift” said school sweater from another child which may sound trite but for the implications of having a child at Tumaini who STILL has no respect for integrity or honesty; caring for Harriri whom we thought had broken his pinky finger in play, (thank God it is only a jam); two nights ago welcoming Mary (Kelvin’s sister) home from university and assisting her in provisioning her home after months away; last night, a lonnngg talk with Marko, one of our older boys who has run away from Moshi Technical School, a fine and established school here in northern Tanzania announcing that although he is grateful for the help we have provided him, he desires not to continue his studies but to “start his life” (his words).  What life can a fifteen year old boy with seventh grade education in a country with a 70% unemployment rate “start”?

 

We experience the “ups and downs” of any family . . . extrapolated a bit perhaps because of our numbers, but a family still.  We struggle and we argue and cuddle and study and love . . . and we do everything with your prayers and support.  Thank you SO very much for that . . . your hearts sit here with us at Tumaini . . . thank you so very much for that!